I just had the best trip back to Hudson (OH) I could have possibly hoped for. It was like having a huge reunion with family and friends. Even the thing I was ~dreading — giving a Google presentation at CWRU — went great (huge turnout and I think I spoke pretty well).
[this recap is mostly for my own memory's sake, but feel free to read if you really want:]
THURS (3-10): Flew to OH. Briefly hang with fam + Cooper. Then off to Strauss’s bachelor party. Was there with: Elliott, Pat, Drew, Riley, Luke, Fretal, Flood, Strauss. Ate at Chophouse (freezing!), then had the Governor’s Suite in the Cleveland Ritz Carlton. Lots of interesting things.
FRI: Chilled. Lunch with dad and Corie. Then dinner and coffee with Pat. Then over to Robb’s house to hang. Then Lang’s house.
SAT: Breakfast in Cleveland Heights (Tommy’s) with Cale, Kate, Hiltner, Phil, and Bihary. Then back for lunch with family at Damon’s. Napped. Grabbed Starbucks (of course). Then off to Strauss’s wedding at the Cleveland Botanical Gardens. It was awesome to see Mark say his vows, and we had fun at the reception because it was just a group of 10 of us close friends at one table in the corner (even Mitch was there!). Dancing. Then at midnight off to poker at MikeG’s. Saw Steve and Phil too.
SUN: sleep till 10. Then off to NewSong for church (good chats afterward with Cale and Mark Miller and Camisa). Then lunch at Aladdins. Then chilled for the rest of the day. Dinner with parents plus Uncle Jon and Sally. Yay!
MON: (stressed all day cuz I was giving the CWRU Google talk at 6. Lots of prep time). Wake up at 9. Shopping/Starbucks with Corie. Then prep. Lunch with Riley(!) at 1:30 — we had a great conversation about life and the Bay Area and the church (I need to read Rohr). Then home and more prep (and some playing with Cooper). Then off to CWRU. Then I ran into Gaurav in the parking garage(!). Said hi to Prof. Branicky (Master’s Advisor). Gave the presentation at 6. We expected 10-20 people — we got over 50. Ran out of pizza. I talked for a good while — probably 1.5hours including questions. I don’t think I bored people too much, and people seemed pretty interested. Then coffee with Alex Binary (good conv.). Then back home — chat with ‘rents, poker with Corie and Pete — and eventually Elliott. Then a last chat with Elliott. Then back. And then type this blog
entry now… now.
At the wedding: Had a good realization about 1 Cor 13. Whenever I think of that passage I instinctively think of weddings/marriage (probably cuz it’s read so often at weddings) — but I want to subvert that. I don’t think the passage was intended primarily for marriages (although it includes that) — but rather for the love that christians should be showing to eachother within the church community and to the world as a whole. It’s easy to love one’s spouse (presumably) — but it’s alot harder to be patient, kind, and not self-seeking with the rag-tag community to which God has called me/us. How can I live 1 Cor 13 in my life — in my community, with my friends, with the world?
If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but
have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I
have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all
knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not
love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender
my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing.
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not
boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not selfseeking, it is
not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not
delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects,
always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will
cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is
knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in
part, but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. When I was
a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned
like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. Now
we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to
face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully
known.
And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the
greatest of these is love. (1 Cor 13)